{"id":3500,"date":"2009-07-05T09:35:00","date_gmt":"2009-07-05T16:35:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/cahighways.org\/wordpress\/?p=3500"},"modified":"2009-07-05T09:35:00","modified_gmt":"2009-07-05T16:35:00","slug":"fathers-and-photographs","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cahighways.org\/wordpress\/?p=3500","title":{"rendered":"Fathers and Photographs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My father died in 2004 (story at <a href=\"http:\/\/grandpa_a.livejournal.com\/\" class=\"lj-user\">grandpa_a<\/a>). One of the various collections I inherited<sup>*<\/sup> was his collection of photo albums&#8230; at least 200 of them. Although my dad had lots of cameras, he wasn\u2019t the best of photographers. There were a fair amount of blurry pictures, which he would dutifully put in albums. He would also go on lots of accounting seminar trips with my mom, and take loads of pictures of scenery and random people (I have a picture from 1977 in front of me labeled \u201cGeorge. George\u2019s Wife\u201d &#8212; I have no idea who George is). There are also a fair number of pictures of clients and people who may have been dear to my parents, but whom have no meaning to me. So I\u2019ve been going through these pictures and condensing the albums. I\u2019ve been tossing pictures that have faded beyond visibility (old color film does this when stored in a garage). I\u2019ve been tossing scenery without meaning. I\u2019ve been tossing pictures of people I don\u2019t know. So far, I\u2019ve condensed 48 albums into 7&frac12; albums, and I\u2019m up to the beginning of 1978. I\u2019m sure things will go even faster after I move out of the house in 1979.<\/p>\n<p>In doing this process, I\u2019ve learned quite a bit about photos and building photo albums. I\u2019ve realized that the albums I\u2019ve assessmbled of my family probably suffer the same problem as my dad\u2019s did. Here\u2019s what I\u2019ve learned; perhaps you will find this advice useful:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Photo albums serve two audiences: those who were present at the event, and those far in the future. These are distinctly different. My father used the albums to remind him of where he had been and the good times. After he died, those memories went with him. The albums now serve to remind me of the <i>people<\/i>, and less the <i>places<\/i>. So I\u2019m focusing on keeping the pictures with people I know. This leads to <b>Lesson #1: Put people in your pictures.<\/b> Pictures of just scenery age fast, and are meaningful only to those who were there with you. Having people in your pictures, especially family or extended family, make the pictures meaningful and root them.\n<li>Memories fade. There are loads of pictures in people I don\u2019t recognize, and good number that I do. It really helps me when the pictures are labeled with date and time. <b>Lesson #2: Label the people in your pictures.<\/b> Now, these are old film prints, so we can label with a pen. For digital pictures, use the metadata.\n<li>I\u2019m dealing with physical albums. There are loads of blurry pictures, pictures of random strangers, bad angles, bad composition. My dad just put them in the album. I\u2019m sure it would have been even worse if he had gotten into the digital era. <b>Lesson #3: Weed Before, and Weed Again<\/b>. When you assemble your album, weed the pictures down to the meaningful. Yes, there will be more weeding to do as the years go on, but why keep the drek now?<\/ul>\n<p>After my dad died in 2004, I just stopped taking pictures. I don\u2019t know whether it was my film camera dying. I don\u2019t know if it was my workplace getting rid of the convenient developing service. I don\u2019t know if it was never having a decent digital camera, or a printer for what few photos I took (or finding it much harder to keep digital photos organized than my printed film images). Just recently I\u2019ve begun to think about taking pictures again, but I want to go out and get a decent digital camera setup. I\u2019m sure the 15 or so film cameras I inherited from my dad<sup>**<\/sup> are less than useful these days, and my old Canon is dying. <\/p>\n<p>A side note: This process of going through the pictures, especially the pictures of my youth and Jr. and Sr. high school days, has really been bringing back memories. I\u2019ve been exploiting Facebook to reconnect with folks I haven\u2019t spoken to in years (welcome to those reading this), and it is wonderful to reestablish long-lost friendships from that part of my life. I\u2019ve gone to the paid level at Classmates for a year, and I\u2019ll see if that permits me to find more folks to reconnect with. Finding old friends: That\u2019s been an unanticipated side benefit of this process, and perhaps the real gift of this inheritance. <\/p>\n<hr width=200 align=left>\n<font size=\"-2\"><sup>*<\/sup> I also have collections of First Day Covers and Autographs. I\u2019d welcome help on figuring out what to do with those.<\/font><br \/>\n<font size=\"-2\"><sup>**<\/sup> Yes, I need help figuring out what to do with these as well.<\/font><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My father died in 2004 (story at grandpa_a). One of the various collections I inherited* was his collection of photo albums&#8230; at least 200 of them. Although my dad had lots of cameras, he wasn\u2019t the best of photographers. There were a fair amount of blurry pictures, which he would dutifully put in albums. 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